1 week 7 days.

Hi...

I just dont know why when I tell someone abt a girl who have bf and dont want me. End up, they come and shoot me back. Saying that I am desperate for finding a friend. Saying I am bad a judging people.

Here, that someone says this :

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i was bullied, backstabbed, mistreated and many times was by people i thought were my friends
now i don't get close to anyone and don't get attached, people don't talk to me not my problem
u complain whenever people stop talking to you or smallest of things happen you overeact
telling you as a friend, don't think so much about
people unless u can trust them with your life
in anime and dramas, always got best friends, this real life, always got best enemies
u think people throw u aside? thats being desperate

And when I said that this person whom I talk to, doesnt know how I feel...

This person says :

im giving you advice on how i have lived my life, don't tell me i don't know how you feel, don't insuklt me..
don't ever tell people they don't know how you feel when you ask for advice
you're gonna lose more friends that way

I am different from that person. Telling my problems, doesnt mean I am asking you for advice, I just need a pair of listening ears. And I cherish each of my friends and doesnt want to have just only the bf appear and poff ! The end of our friendship ! No I dont want. You lived your life this way, doesnt mean that I have to follow you. You are a carefree person, I am not, when there are problems like friendship is affecting me, yes, I will keep thinking abt it. Because I dont want to lose any friends.