Last night was really a very emotional night because of someone...
Then, wanna find fault with me and etc, which is really... going crazy...
This is how it goes like...
Btw, lets name him A.
A: I now running, the after that gonna write notes.
Me: huh? what notes
A: Organisational Behaviour(OB) and Problem solving(PS).
Me: We (my ITE friends) need help in OB and PS.
A: lol, after dini teach me programming first.
Me: okay can if she late u teach us first.
A: Lol i think i go even early or else i will overslept.
Me: what time u plan to reach ?
A: 8
Me: u sure ?
A: yeah
Me: you can wake up then say. (cos he ALWAYS overslept)
A: you didnt read properly what I write, i say i writing notes, not sleeping.
(I wasnt happy with what he type because he didnt even say that he is not sleeping in the very first place.)
Me: I am not refering to that sentence
A: then what u refering
Me: Abt the time u gonna reach sch n u said u gonna write notes, u never mention that ur not sleeping.
A: write notes equal not sleeping
(Expect people to ASSUME that write notes = not sleeping ah ?!)
Me: I did not assume
A: then problem solving how to pass ?
My neuroticism was very high that night because of some stuff, additional to this...
"Being so proud and wanna put me down" attitude, I was so angry and sad that I cried.
1st, why is he expecting me to ASSUME write notes = not sleeping ? I am not someone whom know what your thinking and etc. And Why must I assume OR why must I assume what he assumed me to assume? In problem solving module, faci said before that do not make too much assumption towards the problem. Just less than 5 or maybe more, depends on the problem.
That's why I tried my best not to assume so much. If assume too much, its hard to solve the problem and it will make people feel more complicated and will be hard to get back on track.
Furthermore, in problem solving, he cannot assume that I am able to know that he's not going to sleep from what he said. However, we're supposed to identify what assumptions are to this problem.
Therefore, I assumed that he is still going to sleep since he mention that he want to go to school early or else he going to overslept.
Yes this is what I assumed but I was crying and was not in a clear mind. So I wrote the sentence above for him after I cool down. LOLS.
2nd, this type of situation does not happen just only once and to me. It happens to everyone and many times already. Other people cant tolerate with his attitude but I am still bearing with it. Because I feel that, its good to learn something when chatting with him. And he got his point there. But now, he went overboard with what he learn and use it in a wrong way. Yet still feeling like as though he never make any mistake.
Tell him already, will he listen ? No right ? Cause, his ego very high and want people to think like what he is thinking. Another thing, I might be small and weak but he think that he can like disturb me or put me down is it ?
Overall, I am someone whom is not for people to put down and I am not someone who let people to control me. If your in the wrong or make any mistake, admit it. Dont raise your need so long like a giraffe.
And dont go overboard with what your learning, because you might be good in that module. You are too confident that you will make mistake and lead people wrongly. Also, how would other people feel if you keep on "showing off" to other people how well you learn & how well you score for your daily grade in that module(s) ? Of course they will demoralise right ? Result in to have low in self efficacy.
I was thinking if I should end this friendship with him or to not to stay so close with him.
What you you guys think ?
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